How to – Score a hot chick

Step one

Know the girl you like. Don't randomly ask out someone and hope it'll work. You need to have complete and total confidence in yourself around this girl, but be careful you don't cross the line to a cocky, arrogant guy who thinks he's the best thing since sliced bread.

Step two

Talk to this girl. Ask her questions like
What's your favourite...?
What do you do after school/work/other?
What's your name? (ask this only if you don't know her name) (you wouldn't believe how guys forget girl's names when they are nervous)
What's your favorite movie?
Think of some of your own. Girls like it when guys are smart and sincere.

Step three

FLIRT! All girls know that when guys tease, they like them. BUT DO NOT TEASE TO HARD. Playfully tease only when you don't have the confidence to flirt.

Step four

I know you're getting anxious to ask her out, but not yet. Wait until you know her a little, but not too much or she'll move on without giving you a chance. Make it a dream date. If you don't know what that is, ask a friend of hers, or better yet, her herself! Give her some signal like a wink when you leave. It'll keep her thinking about you all day!

Step five

Alright, you guys are now on the perfect date. What now? After some hard core flirting, look into her eyes and tell her she's beautiful (don't say hot, cute, sexy, fine, etc.), or if you don't want to say beautiful (but I strongly suggest you do), tell her she's amazing, wonderful, gorgeous, etc. Then, and only then, you may ask her out.

Good Luck!

How to - Score a shy chick

For the most part, the ladies who frequent the hot spots aren’t exactly diamonds in the rough; they’re not secretly wishing they were home with a good book, listening to soft jazz on their favorite AM radio station. Typically, the hotties are personable, even forward, as they don’t have any self-esteem issues and they feel confident amongst crowds. Well, of course. When women are aware of their appeal, they rarely exhibit any shyness or nervousness around the opposite sex. However, every once in a while, you will encounter the quiet, shy, slightly unsure-of-herself girl, the one who simply doesn’t feel comfortable as the center of attention. It can be extraordinarily difficult to get close to these chicks, mostly because they’re probably experts at playing defense. Oh, but there are ways…

So, here are some tips on how to score a shy chick.

Don’t Try To Change Her

She’s shy. Let her be shy. For some unknown reason, men believe that beneath the exterior surface lies an uninhibited tigress just waiting for someone to release the bar on her cage. Many would-be players simply assume they’re just the guy to unlock the prison and let her roam free. Yeah, well, this myth only survives due to a rash of exorbitantly large male ego. Not all women have a porn star’s tendencies or attitude beneath that conservative sweater, so just let her be. Abandon all forward or aggressive moves, and just see if you can coax a smile out of her. Keep the conversation quiet and unassuming, but pique her interest any way you can.

Pinpoint Her Favorite Topics

If you want to score a shy chick, you can’t launch into overt flirting behavior, so you won’t be able to rely on your physical skills or pickup lines. Your looks will obviously play a role, but if you want to appeal to the shy chick, you had better identify with her on the verbal level. She probably isn’t much of a talker, but everyone has their preferred topics of conversation, be it music, travel, exercise or whatever. If you find out what it is, a few petals of that luscious flower will open, and the best part is that she opened them voluntarily. She’ll appreciate the effort, especially if you’re listening and contributing to the discussion. Just make sure you always show an interest, even if her favorite hobby is gardening.

Put In The Time

If you want to score the shy chick, you had best be prepared to take a seat for a little while. If she’s low on your priority list and you’ve already targeted a half-dozen other girls in the place, then you may as well pass altogether. This girl isn’t about to laugh at all your jokes, grab your arm and beg you to take her to the heights of passion just because you seem witty. You’ll have to prove yourself; she’s not going to commit to, or even offer, much of anything until she has convinced herself that you’re worth the chance. Hence, it’s time to spark a conversation and get a little more involved in the mental aspect. This is a careful process; gently poke and prod (metaphorically, genius) until you’ve got her hooked on a particular line.

Credit: askmen.com

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